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Most men always enjoy oral sex, no matter how, where or when. And fact has it, that a lot of women don’t enjoy performing oral sex as much. But fear not! There are ways in which you can spice it up for yourself, while giving your partner a treat he won’t forget in a hurry.
Pleasuring him.
The key is slow and steady. Start off as normal with soft touches and strokes over his body and his favorite erogenous zones - however, avoid his genitals. At least for now. Focus your caresses around his abdomen and inner thighs, as the nerves in this area will start to flush with blood making them extra sensitive.
After a few minutes of indirect teasing, and once he is at least semi erect, you can reroute your foreplay to the area directly around his penis. Running a finger around the base of his penis, gently caressing his testicles and softly running a finger over his perineum (the spot of skin between his testes and anus) should soon bring him to full attention.
At this point you can start to utilize your lips and tongue. Ever so gently, almost not touching, run your tongue from the base of his penis to the tip, and back down, as slowly as you can. These tip of the tongue touches, will awaken every nerve ending in his penis and stimulate him at every slight contact you make.
As you continue slowly licking, flash him the occasional sexy look, making eye contact as often as you can - although do not stare at him relentlessly, as this could make him feel a little under pressure or like he is being scrutinized! Also, as you take his whole member into your mouth, glance to his eyes and smile. This evident pleasure from you will increase his arousal ten fold.
Lightly flicking your tongue over the head and making circular motions around the rim will stimulate him further, especially now he is engulfed in the warm, wetness of your mouth. Throw in the occasional deeper, yet long drawn out suck, giving no indication when you might. The spontaneity is yet another turn on for him!
If you’d like to continue to play around the head, then you can take your hand and either using your own saliva which now coats his penis or with the use of some warming gel as lubricant, gently but firmly masturbate his penis as you kiss the tip. Seeing you do this will look like you are trying to get him off into your mouth, unfailingly heightening his pleasure.
Many men seem to have a thing about women deep-throating them. While some women can do this with no problem, a great amount can’t! But a tip for achieving this feat, is to lay on the bed on your back with your head over the edge, so you are somewhat looking upside down. Your man will stand and have easy access to your mouth. This position also opens your throat up to make it easier on yourself.
So what’s in it for you?
Now, a lot of women who do not enjoy giving oral find that not only do they get jaw ache and jaw lock, but if it is happening in the heat of the moment - and not when your man has just stepped out of the shower - it doesn’t always taste so great. So what are your options? For a fairly reasonable price, you can buy flavored gels which act as a lubricant for oral sex as well as making it taste a little better! Alternatively, if you don’t mind a little more than the usual stickiness, you can play with food stuffs, such as honey, frosting, chocolate or strawberry sauce, which will divert your mind from the salty or sweaty taste and allow you to concentrate on the goal at hand (or mouth as it were).
Semen is possibly not the best tasting condiment either, and if you share this view then there are a couple of ways you can avoid ingesting something which occasionally makes women gag.
First off, no one says you have to swallow or even accept it into your mouth. At the point in which men are about to climax, many stop caring where it is going to go! So when you are aware that he about to peak, finish him off with a hand, or even allow him to shower your naked self. The sight of this afterwards is likely to crank him up again, or at least continue on to pleasing you. Another way of evading the digestion of all 5 calories worth, is to let it all spill out from your mouth back over his penis. He isn’t going to care, and the extra lube is going to feel extra nice to him while basking in the after-glow.
As for the jaw ache, evident if you have a long-lasting partner, the licks, kisses and overall slow moving will help avoid most of the lock jaw! This sensual technique not only tantalizes him no end, but it will make you feel sexy and in control.
Once the deed is done, or you have tortured (in the best possible way!) your man long enough, the act will no doubt be reciprocated or follow on to further things, setting the tone for a long, sensual night of passion.
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Kate Scott
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